{"id":11369,"date":"2026-04-23T04:40:16","date_gmt":"2026-04-23T04:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildgreenquest.com\/?p=11369"},"modified":"2026-04-23T04:40:16","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T04:40:16","slug":"how-being-honest-about-the-process-of-becoming-leads-to-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildgreenquest.com\/?p=11369","title":{"rendered":"How being honest about the process of \u2018becoming\u2019 leads to success\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<br \/><\/p>\n<p>The great jazz trumpeter Miles Davis once said, \u201cSometimes you have to play a long time to be able to play like yourself.\u201d This is why the best artists are not only masterful at their craft but also distinctive in their voice; they\u2019ve committed themselves to the process of being themselves. Subsequently, this means they committed themselves to the failure that comes along with it also. But that\u2019s the part no one talks about\u2014the work required to \u201cbecome\u201d who we are or, better yet, who we want to be. It\u2019s as if we\u2019re expected to go to the gym and walk out with a six-pack. That\u2019s not how the gym works, nor is it how work works. And we know this. There\u2019s a process to becoming, and that process inherently requires failure.<\/p>\n<p>Be that as it may, there are no LinkedIn claps reserved for failing. There are no at-a-boys for coming up short, despite the reality that we\u2019ve all experienced failure to get to where we are. But of course, failure is just a natural part of the process of becoming. So why do we omit this truth from our stories when we tell the tale of becoming ourselves? Why do we whitewash the parts that aren\u2019t so flattering and \u201cyada yada yada\u201d our narratives to a flatten expression of self. I get the fact that no one wants to fail, let alone admit to it. However, I also realize that in order to get good at something, we have to work through being not so good first. So, maybe we should practice sharing the entire story more frequently to help folks more successfully navigate this process of becoming. That\u2019s exactly why we invited Courtnee LeClaire onto the <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/5VMsiaBd09IfwyHwcReqWt?si=GVEDd4wLTc6IQ2-015r9kA\">FOR THE CULTURE podcast<\/a>. LeClaire\u2019s career trajectory consists of a who\u2019s-who of brands. She was the head of worldwide app marketing and corporate partnerships at Apple after launching the iPod and iPhone. She\u2019s held executive marketing seats at Disney and Intel before serving as CMO of the Oakland Raiders. But these days, LeClaire boasts a different title. Today, she is a chief \u201cbecoming\u201d officer, an executive coach that helps leaders become their best selves, who they truly are, to help them achieve what Paul Coelho\u2019s <em>The Alchemist<\/em> would call their personal legend. Despite her long list of impressive accomplishments, in this new role LeClaire spends more time talking about her failures, but she makes a pointed distinction between \u201cfailure\u201d and \u201cfailing\u201d that unlocks many of the challenges we have with failure.<\/p>\n<p>{&#8220;blockType&#8221;:&#8221;mv-promo-block&#8221;,&#8221;data&#8221;:{&#8220;imageDesktopUrl&#8221;:&#8221;https:\\\/\\\/images.fastcompany.com\\\/image\\\/upload\\\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\\\/wp-cms-2\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/studio_16-9.jpg&#8221;,&#8221;imageMobileUrl&#8221;:&#8221;https:\\\/\\\/images.fastcompany.com\\\/image\\\/upload\\\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\\\/wp-cms-2\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/studio_square_thumbnail.jpg&#8221;,&#8221;eyebrow&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;headline&#8221;:&#8221;FROM THE CULTURE&#8221;,&#8221;dek&#8221;:&#8221;FROM THE CULTURE is a podcast that explores the inner workings of organizational culture that enable companies to thrive, teams to win, and brands to succeed. If culture eats strategy for breakfast, then this is the most important conversation in business that you aren\u2019t having.&#8221;,&#8221;subhed&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;description&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;ctaText&#8221;:&#8221;Listen&#8221;,&#8221;ctaUrl&#8221;:&#8221;https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/playlist?list=PLvojPSJ6Iy0T4VojdtGsZ8Q4eAJ6mzr2h&#8221;,&#8221;theme&#8221;:{&#8220;bg&#8221;:&#8221;#2b2d30&#8243;,&#8221;text&#8221;:&#8221;#ffffff&#8221;,&#8221;eyebrow&#8221;:&#8221;#9aa2aa&#8221;,&#8221;subhed&#8221;:&#8221;#ffffff&#8221;,&#8221;buttonBg&#8221;:&#8221;#3b3f46&#8243;,&#8221;buttonHoverBg&#8221;:&#8221;#3b3f46&#8243;,&#8221;buttonText&#8221;:&#8221;#ffffff&#8221;},&#8221;imageDesktopId&#8221;:91470870,&#8221;imageMobileId&#8221;:91470866,&#8221;shareable&#8221;:false,&#8221;slug&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;wpCssClasses&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;}}<\/p>\n<p>Failure, as LeClaire bifurcates, is a complete sentence. It\u2019s done, and, therefore, it occupies real estate in our lives like a title\u2014<em>I failed, so I\u2019m a failure<\/em>. Failing, on the other hand, is an active sentence, meaning that there\u2019s something that comes after it. And it\u2019s the something that comes after it that enables us to do something about it. <em>I\u2019m failing, so I need to [fill the blank].<\/em> <em>I was failing, so I [fill in a blank some action]<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The reframing of <em>failure<\/em> to <em>failing<\/em> is what opens the door for success. Whether it\u2019s something new or something new to us, there will be a point when we are failing relative to our ambition and taste. But when we perceive it as an active sentence, we give ourselves room to improve. Failure is something we experience, not who we are. It\u2019s a moment in time, and because it\u2019s something we\u2019re merely experiencing, that means we can change it. This distinction is critical. One is a state of who we are (failure), and the other is a state of where we are (failing). When we reposition failure to failing (or I <em>was<\/em> failing), we acknowledge the reality of where we are relative to where we want to be and can now honor the fact that this is just a part of the process.<\/p>\n<p>To hear this from LeClaire during our conversation on the pod had a profound impact on me personally because I worked with her during my time at Apple. She was much more senior than I was, and I \u201ctotemized\u201d her as the consummate example of having it all together. She wasn\u2019t in my reporting vertical, but I got to engage her from time to time, where she\u2019d drop marketing wisdom and sage advice for how to navigate life on One Infinite Loop. To hear her reveal her moments of failing on her way to becoming, even in those moments when I held her on a pedestal, was like learning that Spiderman is really Peter Parker. That is to say, LeClaire, like all of us, had to play a lot to learn to play like herself. Fancy that.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Hearing this not only humanized LeClaire but also gave me permission to admit to my own failings and accept the fact that we\u2019re all just buffering, even the best of us, as we become our best selves. Imagine how empowering that would be if we all started to share our own processes of becoming, moving from failure to failing; it might help us all navigate the process with a bit more grace\u2014and perhaps even a bit more success.<\/p>\n<p>Check out the full episode of our conversation with Courtnee LeClaire on the latest episode of the <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/5VMsiaBd09IfwyHwcReqWt?si=GVEDd4wLTc6IQ2-015r9kA\">FOR THE CULTURE podcast<\/a> on Spotify or wherever you get your podcast.<\/p>\n<p>{&#8220;blockType&#8221;:&#8221;mv-promo-block&#8221;,&#8221;data&#8221;:{&#8220;imageDesktopUrl&#8221;:&#8221;https:\\\/\\\/images.fastcompany.com\\\/image\\\/upload\\\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\\\/wp-cms-2\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/studio_16-9.jpg&#8221;,&#8221;imageMobileUrl&#8221;:&#8221;https:\\\/\\\/images.fastcompany.com\\\/image\\\/upload\\\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\\\/wp-cms-2\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/studio_square_thumbnail.jpg&#8221;,&#8221;eyebrow&#8221;:&#8221;&#8221;,&#8221;headline&#8221;:&#8221;FROM THE CULTURE&#8221;,&#8221;dek&#8221;:&#8221;FROM THE CULTURE is a podcast that explores the inner workings of organizational culture that enable companies to thrive, teams to win, and brands to succeed. 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